#growth _"You gotta stand for something or you don't stand for anything at all."_ - Pat Be fucking polarizing. If everyone likes everything about you then you're being a chameleon. And while chameleons are super cool, they are not particularly [[Genuine, Authentic, Consistent|genuine, authentic, or consistent]]. When you're polarizing people know where you stand. And it's a simultaneously confident and vulnerable thing to do. You're allowing people to agree or disagree with your opinions and actions, and judge you based on them. If you have no opinion, there's no fear of judgement, of being isolated. Being polarizing shows [[Trust#Confidence|confidence]] because it shows that you believe enough in yourself to be judged. So stand for something and let people know. Let people judge you for it, and stand up with them or against them when they tell you what they think.