#growth From Matthew McConaughey's [_Greenlights_](https://www.audible.com/pd/Greenlights-Audiobook/0593294181): _To have style you have to have these in this order. You've got to know who you are before you know what you want to say. Then not give a damn. But knowing who you are is the base that everything else comes from._ _You know who you are when you become independent enough to believe your own thoughts and become responsible for your actions and you not only believe what you want, you live what you believe._ - Matthew McConaughey It's not just style that comes from doing these things in this order. Your entire life will change. And you'll become [[Trust|trustworthy]].