#growth If someone never gives you a no, always saying "yes" or "maybe", they're probably doing it to try not to hurt your feelings for saying no. And when someone keeps saying, "yeah maybe" you stop trusting their "yeses". So say no when you mean no, and push for a no when you want to know, and then you'll be able to trust every yes means "I want to!". This idea was [[Stealing|stolen]] from John Yost